The Sociopath Next Door by Martha Stout
Most of us think of sociopaths as serial killers, but sociopaths walk among us and are not all killers, at least not in the literal sense.
What is a sociopath?
According to Dr. Stout, a sociopath is someone who lacks a conscience, defined as, “a sense of obligation ultimately based in an emotional attachment to another living creature (often but not always a human being).”
Without a conscience, sociopaths don’t experience guilt, remorse, shame, or concern for the feelings of others. Also love, joy, or passion.
Sociopaths know the difference between right and wrong; they just don’t allow that pesky distinction affect their behavior.
The condition is untreatable. Your best defense again a sociopath is avoidance, which is challenging if the sociopath in question is your boss, boyfriend, or a member of your family.
Using examples from a super successful business executive to a suburban grandmother, Dr. Stout illustrate the treacherous traits in easily recognizable if chilling clarity.
As you can imagine, our book club had a fascinating discussion about this book!
WHAT OTHER REVIEWERS SAY
Mary Pipher, Ph.D., author of Letters to a Young Therapist and Reviving Ophelia: “Stout’s well-researched and carefully conceptualized book on conscience is thought-provoking and spiritually satisfying.”
WHO WROTE IT
Martha Stout, Ph.D., a clinical psychologist in private practice, served on the faculty of the Department of Psychiatry at Harvard Medical School for twenty-five years. She is also the author of The Myth of Sanity. She lives on Cape Ann in Massachusetts.